TF-CBT is designed to help preschool children as young as 3 and 4 years old after a trauma.
Preschool Trauma is Common
Trauma is one of the leading causes of mental health problems in children, and TF-CBT for preschoolers can help support the many young children who find themselves affected by trauma each year. Learning that a preschooler has experienced a trauma is terrible news for any parent. As caregivers for children, we do everything possible to shield the young people in our lives from danger. Despite our best efforts, sometimes life happens in ways we didn’t expect or hope for: accidents, violent situations, grief, and loss are not always preventable, and can affect people of any age—including preschool children. Statistically, 26% of kids in the United States will witness or experience a trauma before the age of 4.
Some common causes of childhood trauma among preschoolers are:
Prolonged separation from a parent due to illness, incarceration, or foster care placement
A severe accident or illness, such as a car accident or cancer
Physical, verbal, or sexual abuse
Witnessing physical or verbally abusive arguments between parents
It’s important to know that preschoolers can be just as affected by witnessing a parent’s trauma as they would be if the trauma happened to them directly. Very young children are so connected to their parents that their own sense of self and safety is wrapped up with their parents’ well-being. Seeing a parent in trouble can be intensely frightening and painful for a preschool-aged child, and can be just as likely to result in trauma symptoms.
How PTSD Affects Preschoolers
While some preschool children will “bounce back” fairly easily from their trauma experience, others might show lingering problems long after the initial event has passed. Trauma symptoms can impact any child’s life, but younger children may especially vulnerable to developing symptoms. Other factors that make trauma symptoms more likely include having special needs or sensory sensitivities, experiencing other life stresses, and having a previous history of trauma or loss.
How can you tell if a preschooler in your life has trauma-related symptoms? Very young kids may not be able to tell us in words what they are going through, but will communicate their trauma through tantrums or crying, difficulty sleeping, frequent nightmares, or problems paying attention or following directions. Parents often observe that their child seems to “regress” to an earlier developmental stage after a trauma, and may suddenly struggle with problems they had previously grown out of, such as potty training or sleeping through the night.
Lots of research has been done on the subject of early childhood trauma. We’re learning that even the youngest children can be just as deeply affected by trauma as older children and adults. Fortunately, we’ve also discovered that preschool-aged children can benefit greatly from age-appropriate trauma therapy tailored to their developmental level. One of the best-researched forms of therapy for preschool survivors of trauma is Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or TF-CBT.
What is TF-CBT, and How Can it Help Preschool Children?
TF-CBT is a form of therapy designed specifically to help children ages 3-18 following a traumatic event, and it can be an especially big help for children in the preschool and early elementary age range. It is an evidence-based form of therapy, meaning that it has been proven effective by research to help children with these symptoms. Through TF-CBT, preschoolers and their parents learn skills to cope with trauma symptoms, helping the child to alleviate anxiety, manage worries, and cope with strong feelings. The parent and therapist gradually assist the child in expressing their thoughts and feelings about the traumatic event and make sense of what happened, so that it no longer feels like an overwhelming experience.
TF-CBT tailored for preschoolers puts a strong emphasis on educating both children and parents about how trauma can cause problems problems with their bodies as well as their feelings. This can be extremely helpful for young children, who may feel quite confused by their symptoms and alone in their experience. Educating children about trauma in an age-appropriate way helps children understand that they are not alone—many other young children have walked in their shoes, and have recovered from trauma to live happy and fulfilling lives.
How does TF-CBT for Preschoolers Work?
During treatment with TF-CBT, preschoolers are taught how to use relaxation and mindfulness techniques to reduce anxiety and mood swings during the day and promote restful sleep at night. While these relaxation skills are used initially to reduce symptoms of trauma, they are also a great life skill that can grow with the child, helping them to manage other stressful situations as they arise.
Since younger children may have more difficulty putting feelings into words and making connections between past and present experiences, TF-CBT for preschoolers relies more on art and play-based activities to help children identify important feelings and develop a better understanding of their experiences. Through art and play activities facilitated by a therapist, the child can work through any misconceptions about their trauma experience, alleviate feelings of guilt or self-blame, and find a sense of closure.
Helping Preschoolers Move Beyond Trauma with TF-CBT
While therapy cannot make a young child forget what has happened to him, it can take some of the power away from a traumatic experience. It can help a child move past this difficult time in their lives and toward other, more hopeful chapters. Many parents and children find that after working through a traumatic event in therapy, children develop more resilience and empathy for others. Children and parents complete the TF-CBT process together by reviewing the child’s growth and learning strategies to help the child stay safe and avoid dangerous situations in the future.
If you’d like to learn more about how to support your preschooler with trauma through TF-CBT, my door is always open. You can also learn more by visiting the official website for TF-CBT.
